| 創世記 |
| 22:9 | 他們到了 神所指示的地方，亞伯拉罕在那裡築壇，把柴擺好，捆綁他的兒子以撒，放在壇的柴上。 |
| 22:10 | 亞伯拉罕就伸手拿刀，要殺他的兒子。 |
| 22:11 | 耶和華的使者從天上呼叫他說：“亞伯拉罕！亞伯拉罕！”他說：“我在這裡。” |
| 22:12 | 天使說：“你不可在這童子身上下手，一點不可害他！現在我知道你是敬畏 神的了，因為你沒有將你的兒子，就是你獨生的兒子，留下不給我。” |
| 22:13 | 亞伯拉罕舉目觀看，不料，有一隻公羊，兩角扣在稠密的小樹中，亞伯拉罕就取了那隻公羊來，獻為燔祭，代替他的兒子。 |
| 22:14 | 亞伯拉罕給那地方起名叫“耶和華以勒”（註：意思就是“耶和華必預備”），直到今日人還說：“在耶和華的山上必有預備。” |
| 22:15 | 耶和華的使者第二次從天上呼叫亞伯拉罕說： |
| 22:16 | “耶和華說：‘你既行了這事，不留下你的兒子，就是你獨生的兒子，我便指著自己起誓說： |
22:12 把心中所摯愛的獻上是一件難事。愛自己的獨生子豈不是理所當然嗎？只要當我們肯獻上神所要的，祂所賞賜的就遠超過我們所想的。祂所賜的屬靈恩福比我們的犧牲更大。還有甚麼東西是你捨不得獻上的呢？你所愛的、你的孩子，還是你的時間？這些不都是從祂而來的嗎？我們當信靠祂必為我們預備一切（參22:8）。
昔日神為亞伯拉罕預備了公山羊，今日為我們預備的是……
22:13 請留意那代替以撒獻在壇上的公山羊，與在十字架上代替我們受死的耶穌，兩者之間的相似之處。神阻止亞伯拉罕殺他的兒子，卻不保留自己的獨生子耶穌，要祂死在十字架上。若耶穌存活，則全人類都要死。神差獨生子為我們死，好使我們免受應得的永死，反得永生（參約3:16）。
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Genesis
| 22:9 | | And they came to the place which God had told him of; and Abraham built an altar there, and laid the wood in order, and bound Isaac his son, and laid him on the altar upon the wood. |
| 22:10 | | And Abraham stretched forth his hand, and took the knife to slay his son. |
| 22:11 | | And the angel of the LORD called unto him out of heaven, and said, Abraham, Abraham: and he said, Here am I. |
| 22:12 | | And he said, Lay not thine hand upon the lad, neither do thou any thing unto him: for now I know that thou fearest God, seeing thou hast not withheld thy son, thine only son from me. |
| 22:13 | | And Abraham lifted up his eyes, and looked, and behold behind him a ram caught in a thicket by his horns: and Abraham went and took the ram, and offered him up for a burnt offering in the stead of his son. |
| 22:14 | | And Abraham called the name of that place Jehovahjireh: as it is said to this day, In the mount of the LORD it shall be seen. |
| 22:15 | | And the angel of the LORD called unto Abraham out of heaven the second time, |
| 22:16 | | And said, By myself have I sworn, saith the LORD, for because thou hast done this thing, and hast not withheld thy son, thine only son: |
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22:12 to bring the hearts of the loved ones is a difficult task. Love is not the only son of their own course? As long as we are willing to bring God to be, the祂所reward far more than we want.祂所thanks to the spiritual Enfu greater than our sacrifices. What things do you want to bring? You love your child, or your time? These are not come from him?信靠祂we will prepare everything for us (see 22:8).
Former God of Abraham prepared for the goat, and today we are prepared……
22:13 Please note that instead of throwing in the altar offer the goat, and instead we crucified by the death of Jesus, the similarities between the two. God of Abraham stop killing his son, the only son not to retain their own Jesus, he died on the Cross. If Jesus survived, all must die. Shencha only son died for us, so that we should get from eternal death, but have eternal life (cf. about 3:16).
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Former God of Abraham prepared for the goat, and today we are prepared……
22:13 Please note that instead of throwing in the altar offer the goat, and instead we crucified by the death of Jesus, the similarities between the two. God of Abraham stop killing his son, the only son not to retain their own Jesus, he died on the Cross. If Jesus survived, all must die. Shencha only son died for us, so that we should get from eternal death, but have eternal life (cf. about 3:16).
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--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Listen to the parents of children emotional way
In a lecture activities, a mother raised their hands by asking: "girl, you performances so parents should communicate more children Di time, but I Aberdeen Well willing to communicate with me, I can point do?"
Perseverance is important
In fact, communication is necessary trust and confidence. Many young people fear their parents Shoubuzhu privacy, while others worry about being questioned, and negate their own problems to pay for the efforts and capabilities. Many times, parents want to teach their children "the most effective" way, so that when children have their own efforts to solve the problem, parents often deal with the question of children, they point out weaknesses, then put his past successful experience taught to their children, but also exhorted them to act according to method, and that this method will succeed. More than a series of actions, it reflects the feelings parents cherish, but not好受children, because their confidence has been trampled on.
Parents should first listen, and their children's emotions, such as anger and grievances, such as Fufen.
Setbacks faced by their children when they most needed communication between parents and the moment because this is a moment of communication, not just understand each other, but also to give their children the comfort, support and care. Parents can say: "this matter really Niao Hello! Points in the matter?" Or said: "I understand your reasons for the expense of happy Well, I好想together谂with you, I have tried……"
If a parent is a group of angry easily, to change the usual methods of communication used to improve communication with their children, a more patience.
However, children of parents Shanxing many of the changes are not accustomed to, and even suspected that these changes only Yishibanke, perseverance is very important.
There have been life or, bleak times, can bring out wonderful time of life. Samaritan Befrienders Hong Kong jointly with Apple Daily this column and share with you how to overcome obstacles to eliminate confusion and live a wonderful life. Enquiries can be made to the Council Tel: 2341 7227.
25-07-2007
In a lecture activities, a mother raised their hands by asking: "girl, you performances so parents should communicate more children Di time, but I Aberdeen Well willing to communicate with me, I can point do?"
Perseverance is important
In fact, communication is necessary trust and confidence. Many young people fear their parents Shoubuzhu privacy, while others worry about being questioned, and negate their own problems to pay for the efforts and capabilities. Many times, parents want to teach their children "the most effective" way, so that when children have their own efforts to solve the problem, parents often deal with the question of children, they point out weaknesses, then put his past successful experience taught to their children, but also exhorted them to act according to method, and that this method will succeed. More than a series of actions, it reflects the feelings parents cherish, but not好受children, because their confidence has been trampled on.
Parents should first listen, and their children's emotions, such as anger and grievances, such as Fufen.
Setbacks faced by their children when they most needed communication between parents and the moment because this is a moment of communication, not just understand each other, but also to give their children the comfort, support and care. Parents can say: "this matter really Niao Hello! Points in the matter?" Or said: "I understand your reasons for the expense of happy Well, I好想together谂with you, I have tried……"
If a parent is a group of angry easily, to change the usual methods of communication used to improve communication with their children, a more patience.
However, children of parents Shanxing many of the changes are not accustomed to, and even suspected that these changes only Yishibanke, perseverance is very important.
There have been life or, bleak times, can bring out wonderful time of life. Samaritan Befrienders Hong Kong jointly with Apple Daily this column and share with you how to overcome obstacles to eliminate confusion and live a wonderful life. Enquiries can be made to the Council Tel: 2341 7227.
25-07-2007
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